More than a million songs written about it, more than a thousand poems written about it, more than a hundred movies produced about it. Its inevitable. It doesn't necessary have to be from Eros love.
I remember a particular novel I read where the main character 's parents fell apart after his sister's death. Trust me, it works either way and the heartbreak from it is something that marks one for life.We all have our issues, pasts, and mistakes. We all pray and hope for that second chance.
Now consider this from Eros love, loving someone deep down from your heart and yet finding it hard to talk to the person you feel that way for and then the person loves another or an unrequited love.
No one is a saint yet there is a white hot deep pain that sears through your heart, possibly cutting you like a knife or leaving you bathed in acid or feeling like that.
Heartbreak in itself is something cupid never intended but humans with our funny but disastrous ways birthed Heartbreak.
Love is beautiful when it is right, the fight will come, the high and tough days will come, the time when you just have to ask yourself what you ever found in the other person.
Love as every other good thing can be used for ulterior purposes and there are people who have made that their life 's mission. Love is not for vengeance, it is not a tool but hey, different things to different people.
Before Heartbreak is love. Heartbreak tears you down, makes you feel isolated, tears the essence of life from you. Heartbreak to some, is a death warrant, a suicide note. Whoever hasn't felt it, hasn't loved because no love is perfect.
Even Romeo and Juliet had to face heartbreak but chose to ignore it and they both died. There is no pain without gain and there is no perfect love, relationship or marriage that doesn't or hasn't gone through hell.
Its not you or your partner, its just the way things are programmed to be. There is always a high, hard and strong cliff you have to climb to stand unscathed with your love.
However using heartbreak as an excuse to avoid love is in it self silly. The same way you are different from your friend and foe is the same way the next person is different from his or her foe or friend. Okay so it has happened,its not easy dearie but you gat to shake it off and move on.
As a lady, gather your friends for a night and hold a slumber party, have fun with them that night. Eat loads of chocolate and ice cream and just hold back the tears that night.
Let yourself imagine a world without him. The next day, wake up with smiles and figure out what you what you want to do with Your life.
Dude, get your friends and go to a club, no girl will look like your girl, you have to remember that. So just be classy and choosy for a while. Sneer, scoff, hate and get drunk with Your friends. Its allowed.
But hey, this is bound to hurt, if you decide to block the pain, you are hurting yourself. Let the pain out and deal with it. Scream it out, hit it out.
Don't see your ex as a pig that knew not the value nor usefulness of a pearl but as someone has came into your life to give you experience.
Living in the world of the past will fixdate you as to moving on...... move on, move on I say, because the future is pregnant of many goodies.
The person that is not meant to stay with you forever will not stay, even if you use Superglue..... LOL. Funny but true. Heartbreak gives you the opportunity to review your life.
And finally, try not to hate your ex because you just exed him or her. Haters is a strong passion on its own so hold it not.
Broken relationship is far better than broken marriage. Have fun and a great weekend ahead. Ciao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ☺
Written For PoliFocus By: Miss Adekunle akorede tejumade
Written For PoliFocus By: Miss Adekunle akorede tejumade
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