"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life"
It is no longer news that every 14th of February of every year is set aside to celebrate LOVE.
Little did we know that love is divine and sacrificial. By now many love birds must have being on trips of love.
But hey! Is that day set aside for making love? The answer is hell NO!
It is a day to show love to people around us. Not necessarily only those you have emotional feelings for.
As a boss, you can show love to your subjects. This doesn't exclude parents, colleagues and friends just to mention but few.
In the quote above, there is a notable point.
When you claim to love someone, you must be ready to give something out. This doesn't primarily means money.
God loves us by sacrificing His only Son! How many of us can do that?
You may sacrifice your time, conveniency, among others.
But larger percentage of out ladies are getting this concept wrongly, especially in Africa.
Fewer ladies can spend a little out of their income to shower gift on their spouse or boyfriend as the case may be.
They believe that it is the sole responsibility of their men to cater for all their needs, this is not fair enough.
You expect hampers always as a lady on every occasion, even on your birthday, same scenario on his birthday!!! Not fair enough
That is why inhumane treatments are being meted on them in most cases. Be a contributing factor for sustainance of your relationships.
The irony of the situation is that some of these group of ladies that cannot spend a dime on their spouse are those clamouring for gender equality!!
What an hypocrisy of global order... If gender equality must come into place, then the law should be applicable in all sphere of the relationship, including finance.
Love is like a chain... When you give, you must receive.
Never force yourself to be in a relationship, your present man or woman may not appreciate you bit I bet it with you thousands are out there looking for a way to get close to you.
Above all, treat your man or woman like a king or queen respectively. And the multiplier effects will surprise you.
I wish you all a hitch-free Valentine celebration
-PFB
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